Women and Their Ice Cream

Todd has learned the most important rule of life: Don't come between a woman and her ice cream cone. He attempted to take Isabella's ice cream away from her tonight so that he could put her in the car seat and learned quickly that it was a baaaaaaaaaaaaaaad idea! She screamed, turned red, and then started to sob...poor baby, mean daddy. We opted to leave her alone with it and just clean up the car seat after she was done sucking the life out of the cone.

Today wraps up the second full week I have been a stay-at-home mom and it feels really good. I am already getting sad about going back to work in September!! I feel very fortunate that Isabella was so young when we got her....she started going to a private childcare provider 2 weeks after arriving in the US and we really don't think it had a negative affect on bonding. Now that she is a year old, she is starting to realize who is important in her life and is interacting with each of us in different ways. She is so excited when Todd comes home from work and usually cries when he leaves in the morning. During the day, she actually comes over to me and wants me to cuddle her on the couch or in bed. After she wakes up from a nap, she is more than happy to rock until she gets in a better mood. I think I talk on the phone too much because today she took the tv changer and put it to her ear. She may only have 2 half teeth but she knows what a phone is for!!

Happy Birthday, Baby Girl!!

Isabella turned 1 today...and what a day we had :) We took our morning walk to Barnes and Noble in the most horrific heat I have ever felt (okay..it wasn't THAT bad but it was pretty hot), had a bagel and soda, and pranced around in our pretty party dress-the first of many today. Then we headed back home for a little nappy-which she wanted no part of so we read "GO DOG GO" 900 times instead. We met Todd for lunch at Penn State and had lo mien at Panda Express on campus. Then it was off to the pool for a swim with friends (after a quick stop at Baby Gap for a new outfit) and then a 3 hour nap. Isabella LOVES the water and can now jump in and go under. She also learned how to swim under water from me to the ladder and signs 'more' when she comes up for air :) Dinner was at Chili's...chicken and mashed potatoes with ice cream for dessert. It is a good thing we have a closet full of clothes because we changed them many times today...can't have the birthday girl looking dirty!

Celebrating Isabella's birthday was a very different experience than celebrating Elisabeth's birthday. With Elisabeth, I look back at the night I went into labor, how Todd and I walked the halls waiting for my mom to arrive, and how at 11:21 on March 4th we had our perfect little angel (change that "WE" to "I"...I don't recall him writhing in pain and screaming for mercy). I often try to recall what Isabella's birth was like and then remember I wasn't there for it. I imagine her mom gave birth at home (home being a grass hut with a dirt floor) and most likely went back to work in the rice field the very next day. She didn't have the option of a supportive doctor or medicine or TV to help pass the time. She was probably in a great deal of pain-both physically and mentally knowing that she wouldn't be able to keep her little Yen Nhi because they just couldn't afford her. Seven days later, on July 4th, she was taken to the Lang Son orphanage were she began her wait for us to come and get her.

Having had the tremendous privilege of celebrating Isabella's birthday with her, I can't help but to be thankful for many people... thank you Mom and Dad for making our dreams come true, thank you Mary Nguyen for keeping me going and finding my dream, thank you to my sister for all the nights I called whining and crying, thank you World Child for having such a great agency, and thank you Elisabeth for helping me convince Daddy that this was a good idea:) With all of your help, love, and support you made our dreams come true!

The Partying Has Begun....

Isabella's 1st birthday is 24 hours away! My beautiful baby girl will be become my beautiful big girl....who walks, talks, and throws many, many tantrums a day. When she can't pound my computer keyboard, she puts her little fists down at her side and screams as loud as she can while her face turns beat red. I tried the good ole time-out .... she almost fell off the chair and on to her head. Guess I will just have to let her scream. We have gotten ourselves on a quite a little schedule, though....up at 7, walk at 8 to Barnes and Nobles for a drink and bagel and a little re-arranging of their book shelves, back at 9, nap until 10, shower and get ready for lunch out with whomever will meet us, back to bed around 1 until 3, play until daddy comes home and then dinner out. Can you tell I hate to cook?? During that time frame, I read "Go Dog Go" (the boardbook version) about 25 times. As soon as I lay it down, she picks it up, puts it on my chest (speaking of my chest and the picture below, it is quite big but not THAT big), signs 'more', and then lays her head on the pillow. How can I resist that??

Tonight we dined at the Porter house. We celebrated Dave's birthday (on the 26th) and Isabella's birthday (which is on the 27th)....they were born exactly 58 years and 1 day apart:) We had salad, steak, baked potatoes, broccoli casserole, cheesy noodles, bread from Panera, angel food cake with strawberries and a cookie cake. It was yummy!!! Isabella had her first taste of presents and wasn't that interested. Thank goodness there were about 6 other kids to help open what she didn't want to!

Elisabeth is still in Canada with my mom...there was quite a scare with mice but have it under control now. They went swimming in the lake and to see "Evan Almighty"... I am hoping she is missing her Mama a little bit but I think she is having too much fun!

38 and Feeling Great!!!

Today I turned 38 years old and it was a wonderful day. The only thing that was missing was Elisabeth and my mom being here (I included a picture of them anyway)...she decided to visit my Mom for a much-needed 'Isabella break'. After a phone call from her and a beautifully sung "Happy Birthday", Todd and I took Isabella for a walk and had breakfast at Barnes and Nobles. Then we went to AAA and got her pretty picture taken for her new US passport. At the post office, they wanted all of her documents (certificate of citizenship, official name change, and US adoption paperwork) PLUS her Vietnamese passport to send in for her new US passport. I about died! I don't think John, the postal worker, knew how long and hard I worked for those documents and that I would have NO clue how to replace them. He finally handed me her old passport but kept the rest-AND he put a staple through them all. UGH!

Our next stop was to Moyer's Jewelers for a new Pandora bracelet. If you have never experienced a Pandora bracelet before, GOOGLE them! I got the silver bracelet with an angel (for Elisabeth because she is my angel) and a butterfly (for Isabella because she flew into our lives) and a pink charm for Todd because they didn't have a golf club or a computer and pink is the stone for October. Then I had lunch at Joyce's house (she adopted twins from Thai Nguyen and is in the process of adopting 2 more), home for a nap, then to out of dinner with 2 other friends, and then a final meal at the golf course with Todd. I am 'fooded's out! While at dinner, Isabella learned how to slap Todd in the face (in front of his golf buddies). Quite cute. And she screams while she does it. In her defense, it was 9 pm and she had just about had it with all my celebrating. My night ended with bathing her, reading her a book, and putting her into her crib. What a way to end my day:)

Thank you to all who remembered my birthday and for all the beautiful gifts....

How Do Stay-At-Home-Mom's Do It???

Okay...I have officially been on summer vacation for 2 days. I have cleaned up at least 1000 times, tried to put the baby down for a nap 2000 times, started art projects with Elisabeth 100 times, stepped over the pile of laundry in the hallway 1500 times, and gone out to eat for every meal. I am exhausted. It is easier to work! Last year, as I was lounging by the pool drinking a Diet Coke and reading my romance novel, I should have appreciated the easiness of it all. NOT that I don't enjoy every minute of having Isabella in our lives, but WHEW!! This stay-at-home- mom stuff is rough! Todd comes home and the upstairs and downstairs look like a bomb went off. He just got the old 'don't think I don't work all day just because I am home now' talk. And the 'I am not your slave so pick up after yourself' talk. I think he may need to hear those talks a few more times.

Enough about me and my needs, on to the kids....Elisabeth has successfully completed 4th grade and is moving on to 5th in September. She is on her way to Canada with my mom for Nanny Camp. Length of stay is debatable. She would like it to be for the entire summer-I want her home with us for at least a week or 2. When someone asked her why she was coming back to State College in 2 weeks, her response to them was, "Because SHE (pointing at me) is going to miss me too much!" Right on , Pumpkin :)

Isabella has 1/2 a tooth, is walking everywhere, is in the 75% for height and 50% for weight, hates eating table food unless it is dairy or junk, had her 7th haircut 2 days ago, signs 'mama', 'dada', 'eat', 'finished', 'baby', 'more', and 'please' and NOT when you ask her to, says 'up', 'mama', 'dada', and 'hot' and is the 1 of 2 best thing that every happened to us, Elisabeth being the 1. She is starting swimming lessons (with me-ugh!) next Monday - she loves the water and hopefully will learn how to swim in 1 lesson so I can stop watching her at the pool :)

All in all, I think we will have a wonderful summer. I just need to let the house go to pot and enjoy the kids :)

(The last picture is of Isabella with the Corrie and Clarre Porter....they are 4 years old and were adopted from Thai Nguyen before the shut down.)

No Dentures Needed!!

Guess who has teeth?? FINALLY!!!! Isabella, at almost a year old, finally has a tiny tooth peeking through. I can't imagine the amount of germs that child has swallowed over the last 3 months from us sticking our fingers in her mouth. She got a fever Friday night and was miserable all day Saturday and Sunday. I figured she was getting yet another cold but SURPRISE! The oldest living baby without any teeth has one!

Other good news....we only have 5 days left of school until summer vacation! WHOOPEE!! We are going to be traveling like mad for the next 2 months. We are flying to Colorado to see my brothers, sister-in-law, and nephew in the beginning of July and then to Florida to see Todd's parent in the beginning of August. Somewhere in there we will be spending time with my grandmother at the lake in Canada, seeing my brother in Maryland, and hopefully seeing my sister who lives in Alaska. At least we won't be waiting for 'THE CALL" like last summer :) We have our baby safe and sound at home with us now!

The great thing about being an 'older' parent (I am 38-I know, NOT that old) of a baby is that everything they do is funny. What used to stress me out when Elisabeth was this age (I was 28) I find extremely humorous now. We left Isabella in the kitchen yesterday-thinking it was safe. Next thing we hear is splashing- she had dumped most of the dog water onto the floor, which she was sitting in, and the rest she was drinking right out of the bowl. Normally I would have screamed and thought about the mess I had to clean up but yesterday I ran for the camera-laughing. Elisabeth was so disgusted with Isabella and me that she yelled "THIS IS NOT FUNNY, MOM!" and stomped out of the room. That made me laugh harder! Then, at dinner, she was sitting in her highchair eating buttered bread, crackers, cookies, a muffin, and finally some baby food. I was trying to get dinner ready when she up-ended the pudding cup (which I thought I had put out of her reach). The next time I looked, she was COVERED in vanilla pudding which stuck to the bread, cracker, cookie, and muffin crumbs. Just when I was about to sigh LOUDLY, she signed "MOMMY". Chances are, she didn't mean to sign this but I almost started to cry :) She knew exactly how to get herself out of trouble!

PS I would have taken pictures of all of this but the camera was in Todd's car!